Lately, I’ve found one key ingredient has been helping so many amazing things finally come true for me:
*Being neutral*
I’ve known about this practice and ideology for a while (I’ve been told I need to do it from spirit in several psychic readings 🙈😅) , but lately I’ve had some circumstances pop up where it really, really called for me to finally, actually put neutrality into practice. By doing so, things worked out better than I could’ve predicted. I felt more in flow, more in harmony, and way less anxious.
As you may know, the Universe is always picking up on your vibes. This is where most people struggle with manifestation because they really, really, really want something; they feel they need it so badly … and thus by doing so they put out that “I need it!” energy.
Whatever energy you project is always the energy you receive. So when you put out this energy of “needing” it, in return, you receive more of “needing it”. More longing, more wanting, more it always being just out of grasp.
This energy also turns the Universe off a bit because by desperately needing and wanting, it simultaneously shows lack of trust and lack of faith.
Remember, the Universe always has your best interest in mind. It always has your back and it wants to bring you what you want. The Universe also wants to surprise you and make things even better than you could’ve initially envisioned. However, when you “need” and “want so badly”, you’re low-key telling the Universe that you know better than it. You’re trying to force a situation instead of letting the energy flow.
Wanting something soooo badly and feeling all those desperate “Need this to happen this exact way at this exact time” feelings actually blocks off and prevents your manifestation, putting you in the state of always needing it.
Now of course, there are things we want sooo badly and it’s okay to have these deep desires (the Universe likes when you have desires! It gets to work its magic to help you fulfill them!), but the key is to have these desire and then be neutral about them. (And especially be neutral about the timeline! Remember everything is always lining up to happen in true divine timing)
For example: I recently had an amazing opportunity possibly present itself to me (I can share in due time!). But the final decision on whether this opportunity would occur for me really relied in someone else saying “yes”. I did all that I could, put in all the effort required of me, but then I chose to let it go.
I imagined what it’d feel like if it worked out, but then I told the Universe “whatever is meant to be, I’ll be okay with. If this happens for me: great, if not, that’s okay too. I will be good with either outcome.” And I genuinely meant it. I genuinely felt okay with either it happening or not happening. I truly, completely surrendered and understood that if the Universe wanted me to have this opportunity, nothing could stop it. But, if this opportunity slipped away and I received a “no”, that was okay too because all it meant was that this opportunity wasn’t for my highest good and eventually the Universe would surprise me with something better.
By genuinely, completely accepting I was okay with either outcome, I showed trust and faith, and thus wound up receiving the positive outcome and getting that “yes.”
Another recent opportunity, I went in the with the same approach. If it happens for me “great”, if not I’m okay with that too. This was a situation that very much could have made me nervous, and I also very well could have tried to control the outcome, and put soooo much pressure on myself to manifest it to be incredible. But instead, I just let go.
I genuinely got into that state of true neutrality. I once again talked to the Universe and declared that either way I could and would still be happy, excited, and believe that good things were destined for me.
And sure enough, with that neutral approach once more, in this case things unfolded in a way so much better than I could’ve even predicted and tried to manifest.
I’ll even take it back to my love life. Several years ago, I genuinely surrendered. I let go of who, I let go of when, and I let go of the how. I just said to the Universe: “you know what? If I’m single for the rest of my life, I’ll still be sooo happy and still consider my life to be amazing. So, really, you know I’d love to have an amazing true love, but honestly whatever you want is truly fine!” I think it was less than a month after that declaration that things finally worked out and I started dating my true love for real.
So moral of the story: don’t put soooo much pressure on making what you want to happen, happen. Sometimes we know we have the power of manifestation so we really hype ourselves up and try to force it to be one way, but it’s so important to leave room for the magic of the Universe.
Declare what you want of course, put out as much believing and good energy as you can, but then genuinely accept either outcome is fine. Accept that the Universe always has a reason and always has a plan for each of us. Just because one moment may not be our time to shine, doesn’t mean another moment won’t pop up soon enough.
Playing into neutrality and accepting you can be happy and grateful no matter what, is the vibe the Universe loves. And this is the exact vibe that helps your manifestations actually manifest. ✨
